Tag Archives: monogamy

Fully Open

My boyfriend is now aware of this blog and has started reading it. We have been talking a lot, about open relationships, sex, life, our feelings… so many things. I feel so much closer to him, so happy, and very … Continue reading

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Getting ready for cruising

Every year, my boyfriend travels for a few weeks during summer time on business. This year won’t be any different, with him being away in August for a few weeks. Last year, I made plans to visit saunas, hook up with … Continue reading

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Porncation

It’s nearly time for my boyfriend to come back from his business trip.  I haven’t been to any saunas and I haven’t fucked any strangers.  I’ve been a good boy and stayed at home most nights, or gone out only … Continue reading

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Turning 40 in a Sauna

My boyfriend and I turn 40 this year. I’m thinking of taking him to a gay sauna as part of the “package” celebrations. It’s something we’ve never done before (as far as I know, he’s never been) but we’ve talked … Continue reading

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Back in London

I’ve returned to London, just in time for a glorious heatwave hitting the country. I thought of Hampstead Heath yesterday and how it must be full of cruisers at night. And I thought of the years I spent going to … Continue reading

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First Fuck of the Year

Yesterday, I woke up in the middle of the night with my boyfriend running his hand up and down my back. We were just wearing our underwear; I was sleeping on my stomach. He’d linger his hand over my ass … Continue reading

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Thoughts on My Boyfriend

I’ll try as best as possible to explain why I think my boyfriend doesn’t cheat on me. We have been in a relationship for a long time, nearly ten years, and we have spent a good portion of that time … Continue reading

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