Category Archives: Relationships

Americans at the Backstreet

I met C. for the first time on Friday 26 April at the East End gay pub The Glory. He was visiting the country with his boyfriend A. – also an American – staying with friends we had in common. … Continue reading

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The Bunker and the Backstreet

East London has a leather bar, the Backstreet, just next to Mile End tube station. They used to have themed naked nights called “Buff” on Wednesdays, Saturdays and Sundays, which I visited a few times last year (and thoroughly enjoyed). … Continue reading

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Four Days of Fuck

My boyfriend has traveled to Spain with his lover and I’ve got the week ahead to myself. I’m planning the following: Today, 30 March – visiting Sweatbox for the first time (my second London sauna visit) Saturday, 31 March – … Continue reading

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Upcoming posts

Posts I need to update this blog with: The affair with the Lithuanian boy The hot and sexy half-Turkish, half-French guy who gave me an STD The Romanian builder I picked up at Hyde Park The guy with a 10-inch … Continue reading

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Blowjob Hungry

Last week, I visited G.A.Y. Late for the first time, with a Lithuanian boy I’ve been dating for the past 10 months, plus some of his friends. I had already been drinking with some co-workers before joining them; by the … Continue reading

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Bisexuality

I’ve been fascinated for some time now with bisexual men. Do they really exist? Are they closeted gay men who can’t/won’t make the full transition to gay? How do they manage their desires? Do they like men and women equally, … Continue reading

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Fourth Sauna Visit

Back in October 2016, my boyfriend and I finally visited a sauna together. We were visiting Bristol over a long weekend, as part of our anniversary. We had spent the Saturday walking the city, starting with an English breakfast by … Continue reading

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