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  1. John says:

    Hey there

    Love this page
    Went to Liverpool street station, lots of gay guys in the toilets playing with their dicks

    I want to know the tricks of the trade! How do u get to the next level? Do the guys cum at the urinal? What’s the rules of the game?

    Look forward to your reply

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Hey John,

      The next level is to play at the urinals, take the guy to one of the cabins (dangerous) or meet him outside and go somewhere else. I once took a guy from that toilet to a nearby parking lot and we had some fun on the stairs. It was risky though… there was a security guy just a few floors down.

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Did you get my email? If this nice weather continues, it will be good tomorrow won’t it? πŸ˜‰

  2. John says:

    lets hook up and share stories

  3. Stu says:

    Just discovered you today while hard at work (in all senses). Don’t work in town but when I come up for meetings spend my whole time thinking what cottages I’m going to visit and who might be there. Vauxhall bus station used to be fun but last time there was a security man in and out every few minutes. Waterloo’s ok, depending on the time of day, but always very busy and hard to actually do anything. Beautiful tall young guy with large hard cock wanted me to follow him last time, but I had a train to catch.. Festival Hall basement loos are good: no hassle getting in and often guys there, but not open before 11am. Isn’t life a bitch? Visited Carnaby St for the first time the other day. Really fit young black guy let me wank his enormous cock (skin was silky smooth) but he ran off when another short not very sexy started hanging around. I let him toss me off because I was so horny by that stage, Got cum all down my trousers just before a conference. Often thought of writing a cottaging blog, but don’t need to now, cause I can read yours. Thanks. Stu

  4. Stu says:

    Perhaps I will, then! Yes, I mean the main station at Waterloo (downstairs). Not a patch, I gather, on the old ones. I have a vague memory of using them as a child (in school uniform . . .), glancing down to my right to see an enormous fat white cock (so big I don’t think I even really realised what it was) and scarpering sharpish! Wouldn’t have done that a few years later . . .

  5. Stu says:

    Taken your advice Mr Underground. Check out my cottaging blog at casarius.wordpress.com. Not a good start though. Up into town soon, so hopefully will have something a bit hornier to share. Let me know what you think (and it’s all true).

  6. mark says:

    hi there i am new to the cruising scene, i am from east london (roman road) and was wondering what are the best cruising gyms if there are any near me? any info will be appreciated

  7. mark says:

    thanks, any useful tips on what to do to get attention and what to do to attract interest? any info will be great, i am new to the cruising scene


    • doriansmith5 says:

      I’d suggest joining Squirt.Org and looking at the posts for York Hall and other cruising areas – you’ll get tips from what guys do.

      In the gym, use the changing room and the showers after your work out. Go into the communal area and wait to see what happens. If other guys join you and it looks like they are checking you out, start playing discreetly with your cock – see if they get hard. If they do… have fun! πŸ˜‰

  8. mark says:

    hi i posted on here a while back about cruising gyms near me in east london, as for the york hall one you mentioned is it a members place or can you pay for a day in there? i have been extremley busy and ain’t had a chance to go there yet. i just want to meet older dad types so if you also know of any other places the info will be appreciated


    • doriansmith5 says:

      Hi mark,

      Sorry for late reply. York Hall is members only, but you can pay for day visits – and they are not expensive. You’ll definitely find some hot dads there!

      Good luck,


  9. David says:

    hey! I am new in London, I am a young guy (22 years old) and I really like cruising…I have been in Liverpool st station many times but I am not happy at all with the guys that I find there… I came from spain and there, there are more hot young guys that practice cruising or maybe the reason is that here i dont really know where should I go. Could you recomend me the best toilet frecuented for young guys in the city of london for practising cruising? or is it liverpool st station the best one?
    I would be really happy if you asnwer me due to it is really difficult to find good and quality information about cruising in london.

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Hey there,

      Sorry for late reply – my computer was broken! London is full of good cruising spots but it depends on the time and day. Liverpool St station can be good and bad – you have to try your luck. Rush hour is usually best, when guys are leaving work. For young guys, maybe the toilets in University of London is your best bet. Good luck!

    • Jav says:

      Hola David estas en Londres

  10. Mark says:

    You sure do have a beautiful Tumblr! The men there are just perfect – not too much of that twink shit at all from what I saw but lots of middle-aged and older men as I prefer. Thank you so much!

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Glad you enjoyed it; and you’re very welcome! Twinks and picture-perfect models don’t usually do it for me. Much rather have a mature guy, strong of personality, well-lived, who knows what he wants… πŸ˜‰

  11. Mark says:

    Yeah, the majority of them were so amazing to gaze upon! Are you in any of those yourself. I see a bit of resemblance to some of them I think but then again I wear glasses and I am comparing those to your tiny image in your Gravatar icon.

  12. Hopman says:

    Just discovered your blog and loving it! I recognise some similarities to my own life in London. Love the whole dad and son fetish thing too, very sexy! Keep up the hard work… πŸ™‚

  13. Cumpa says:

    Hi there ,
    For me is a pleasure to read you ,
    I just discovered ur blog today and I really liked it that makes me horny πŸ™‚
    I hope read more and more ,
    Thanks for this infos and the tips cuz I’m new in town mate .
    Have a great and hot weekend

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Glad you enjoy the blog mate. Any parts of London that you like the best?

      • Cumpa says:

        Hi mate
        I try to discover these places in London but for the moment it’s a little complicated I just had only 1 month here and Carnaby and Broderick are closed for works 😦
        I tried Liverpool station but a lot of people in the toilet I’m a little shy , but I will back there πŸ™‚ by the way you know another places in the city …I need you help mate ! Thank you for answer I will appreciate it ! Have a great and hot weekend ! Xxx

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Try Great Porland Street’s toilets. You can’t go wrong with that one.

      • Cumpa says:

        Thank you for tour help mate ! I will keep contact with you de the news πŸ™‚ have a good Night xxx

  14. smegmahunter says:

    Why did you deleted my comment from the Great Portland Street topic? It was maximally related to the theme, and any repies would have been informative for me.

  15. markus says:

    hi just found this page and need some info/tips.
    i am 19 and looking for info on places in the east london area for cruising.
    had my first cruising experience the other day and want to try more,
    was actually my first time with a guy to.
    ant info would be really appreciated

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Hey, what was your first experience like? Where did it happen?

      East London is a bit of a mystery for me – have a look at squirt.org for tips. It’s a good cruising site.

    • Cumpa says:

      Hey Marcus I’m too in Est London ….where it was your cruising I’m new in town mate if you want we keep contact …have a good evening xxx

      • markus says:

        thanks for reply doriansmith5, it was ok i was a bit nervous at first.
        was at the urinals in the toilets in victoria park an old guy was looking at me and wanking so i started to wank myself then he moved closer and grabbed my cock and started wanking me until i came.
        i knew what cruising was about and have always been bi curious so had some idea on what would happen.
        is there any tips you have on how else i would know if someone is interested? i wouldn’t want to give out a signal to someone who is straight.
        also where do you know of in east london?

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Have a look Markus at Hopman’s comment below – he gives good tips on cruising.
      I’ve never been to any gay saunas in London (have only been twice, both times in Leeds) and I’m planning on checking some out in the Eastend in a few weeks. If you want to come along with me, let me know!

  16. Hopman says:

    Try make casual eye contact and if they respond or keep eye contact, that’s a good sign. Watch what they do, if they try eye you out. Try draw discreet attention to your crotch with your hands. Be patient and wait. You’ll learn techniques as you go!

    I hear Liverpool Street station toilets is a good place to try. Most large public toilets are probably also worth checking out. There are also gay saunas in East London you could try…

  17. Lee says:

    I’m been cruising various public toilets and parks for the last 5 years or so, and I’ve noticed a definite decline in numbers and quality of guys. Carnaby St was by far the best and most consistent spot for action up until a few months before it’s closure. I’ve had some of the best sex in there with a 10-15 man free for all suck orgy one Friday evening being a highlight. The nearby Broadwick St toilets aren’t a patch on Carnaby (not that I’ve ventured in there much), and Liverpool St is so hit and miss, as is Old St and even Great Portland. I stick to saunas and parks now, with Hyde Park a particular favourite. I think cottaging will be consigned to history soon what with the closures of some spots and the drop in numbers of guys cruising.

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Do you remember Marble Arch Lee? That was one hell of a busy toilet. So many urinals, so many stalls… it’s crazy how long that place stayed open, and not surprising it eventually got cemented over!

      • Lee says:

        Yeah, l remember the toilets up at MA – I think Carnaby was more active. There used to be some toliets on Regent St between Nike town and H&M awhile ago, and from what I’ve been told from a guy l used to regularly suck off at Carnaby, they were awesome.

    • Hopman says:

      Wow sounds amazing ! Never seen anything like that recently.

  18. Liam says:

    Great blog, can’t believe how much I relate to your posts, I’m in a similar kind of situation and like you I’ve been curious about London saunas for ages but never been. Do you have an email, maybe we can chat?

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Thanks, glad you enjoyed it. I’ve just dropped you a line! πŸ˜‰

      • Liam says:

        Thanks mate, I have replied to it πŸ™‚

      • doriansmith5 says:

        Hey there,

        I replied to your email but it bounced back – so hopefully you’ll see this comment!

        I’m a bit slow sometimes with replying to comments and emails so apologies for not getting back to you sooner!
        That’s very cool that you enjoyed my blog – I sometimes wonder what’s the
        point in putting all my stuff out there like that, but the original
        intention was to share my thoughts in the hope of connecting with others.
        And I guess that’s what happened! πŸ™‚

        Do you and your boyfriend talk about the drop in your sexual life? Do you
        think he thinks about having sex with other men as well?


  19. Kay says:

    Hi I’m here for vacation. Any idea where’s the best place to cruise? Any email I could contact?

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Hi Kay, I suggest you create an account with Squirt.org and use the site to find the cruising places. It’s very up-to-date. For toilets, you can’t go wrong with Liverpool St Station. I don’t know London’s saunas but I hear Pleasuredrome and Chariots Vauxhall are the best ones. Let me know what you get up to! πŸ™‚

  20. markie says:

    hi i would like some info on public places for fun, especially in east london area, like gyms, or toilets or even outdoor places.with older dad types
    had my first experience a while back and want to do more ( cruising wise) as not got that far yet

  21. Rufus82 says:

    Great blog. Be keen to know the names of the gyms you’ve been to with communal showers. A rare find these days πŸ™‚

    • doriansmith5 says:

      The one I went to for many years was York Hall in Bethnal Green, but it was very hit and miss (mostly miss!) There were others in the West End, Jubilee Hall was one, but I don’t know if they still have communal showers. Do you go to any gyms in London?

  22. watford1989 says:

    I do enjoy your blog just wish you’d post more often but get that you’re busy.

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Cheers Watford1989. I haven’t had any adventures lately, and nothing happens at my gym, which is why I haven’t been posting! Is there anything in particular you’d like me to write more about?

      • watford1989 says:

        I’m a big fan of cottaging, never done saunas and am not part of a gym. Would be interested in meeting up if you are?

      • Hopman says:

        Surprised nothing happens at your gym, must be very boring! Saunas are worth a visit, would definitely recommend checking them out. Btw, a blog that really turns me on at the moment is athleticpisspig.tumblr.com; really hot, especially if you’re into piss play, and the guy is really daring at getting naked in public!

  23. doriansmith5 says:

    I’ll email you Watford1989

  24. doriansmith5 says:

    Yeah, it’s boring Hopman – no excitement of going to the changing room afterwards as you know nothing could happen! But at least it keeps me focused on the exercise. πŸ˜‰

    Actually already know that Tumblr! Found him through Cottager… some of those videos are crazy brave.

  25. yxelon says:

    Wow I loved this blog where I can finally see some more info about cruising. IΒ΄m quite new in London and IΒ΄ve been in Liverpool St several times, but right now I just moved to Westbourne Park and I have no idea about the cruising places around this area. Any help will be helpful, thanks!

  26. mankind says:

    Hey Dorian. A fan of your blog. πŸ™‚ I don’t live in London but I sometimes travel to London just for a visit to Liverpool street Station. If you e-mail me I can send you a couple of places that I know of where action takes place . And maybe you can visit and relay your experience(s)? πŸ˜‰

  27. mark says:

    hi i am a young curious guy and looking to cruise
    i live right near victoria park in east london and just wondered if you give me some info on where to go in the park etc
    i am hoping theres some action there as it is right on my doorstep

    thank you

  28. Liam says:

    Hi Dorian, it’s Liam from Squirt. Lost your email, could you send me it again?

  29. liverpoolstreetguy says:

    Hi Dorian

    I am an Asian guy working near the liverpool street station. Very curious about the experience you had there. I am not really brave enough to go there on my own. Please let me know when you are happen to go there next time, so we can probably cruise together, or at least help me debut my cruising life in London. I would highly appreciate your response for the further details, including about me.



    • doriansmith5 says:

      Hey liverpoolstreetguy, I suggest you go in there and check it out. There will be no harm! You don’t have to do anything – it’s like you are going in to genuinely piss. Get a sense of the place, see what guys are up to. That way you can see also if it’s the thing for you.

      Let me know afterwards how it went!

  30. Drew says:

    You can suck me any day. Get in touch

  31. Jack says:

    Hey care to have some fun at Liverpool Street station or nearby sometime?πŸ˜‰

  32. Toni says:

    Hello. Waiting for your stories involving Brazil. Am Braziling and it’s quite interesting to find out what places you have been. Contact me if you’d like.

  33. Pete says:

    Hey Dorian,
    Have been reading your blog for a while now, and it’s been a really informative and insightful tool for me as I’ve come into the world of sex and cruising. I would love to get in touch with you and have a chat, share experience, and see about meeting up. I live in London πŸ™‚ Hope to hear from you mate!

  34. Tommy says:

    Big fan of the blog.
    Wanting to visit some London saunas in April when I visit, but deciding which one!
    Can’t wait to read more x

    • doriansmith5 says:

      Thanks Tommy for reading. Hope you have a great time in London. Where are you from?

      • Tommy says:

        Yorkshire, so the big city is quite an adventure!

      • Tommy says:

        Do you have any suggestions which sauna would be best? A bit nervous about visiting one as never been before.

      • doriansmith5 says:

        Hey Tommy, I only know Pleasuredrome in London, which was fine. I hear Sweatbox is where all the hot guys go, and attitude as well 😁
        Take a look at Squirt.org – there are listings for all saunas and you can get an idea of what they are like!

      • doriansmith5 says:

        Let me know how it goes! πŸ˜‰

      • Hopman says:

        I’ve been to the Stable in Covent Garden a few times, it’s smaller but friendly and enjoyable. Mix of old and young. I want to try some others but I heard some of the saunas have closed recently.

      • doriansmith5 says:

        I also want to check out the Stable. In fact, wouldn’t mind trying them all! Chariots Waterloo closed and I hear rumours they are closing Sweatbox for a big renovation .

  35. Matthew Redden says:

    Do you have an email address that I could contact you at?

  36. Joe says:

    Hey, I’m bicurious and really want to suck a guy off but never done it before…what do you recommend?

  37. Andi says:

    Greetings from the beautiful Berlin / Germany. I will be in London in April and booked a hotel in Soho. I hope that the Sweatbox sauna has opened fresh then. I want to experience a lot in London πŸ˜‰

  38. Jamie Forester says:

    Hey! In London in a couple of weeks and want to try out Sweatbox for my first bar experience like that. Can’t help not wanting to go alone for the first time.. haha!

    Would you be open to hanging out and maybe showing me the ropes?


  39. Jerry says:

    Hi Dorian,

    Big fan of your blog.

    I will be visiting London (from HK) on 25-28 May and will definitely check out Vault on Sat/Sun. But as it closes at 1am, is there any other place to go afterwards? I read your previous post re Bunker (which closes at 4am) but seems like it was pretty empty there after the midnight.

    Also, any chance to have your email address that I could contact you at?


    • doriansmith5 says:

      Hi Jerry, you might want to go to Pleasuredrome after The Vault – it’s open 24 hours during the weekend.

      I’ll drop you a line via my email (I have yours from your comment.)

      Thank you for reading! X

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